Kyle Reed TV - Part 3

Want To Make More Friends?

Who doesn’t want to make more friends?

I have heard people talk about the quota of friends one person can have. I do not doubt there is a number for everyone. Obviously some will be higher then others, but realistically you can handle having several friends at one time.

This post is not about how true friends someone can have, what is a best friend, or if guys and girls can be best friends (though my thoughts are here on that). This post is simple one idea that I believe can help you make more friends.

Start by asking people their name.

Ya, it is that simple, at least the surface. In reality, it is a very hard thing to do. And if that is not enough for you, take it another step by remembering their names next time you see them. This will be the one thing that cuts through anything else you can do, remembering someones name.

There is a barista at a favorite coffee shop of mine that decided to do this. One day I came in to get a cup of coffee and as I was paying she just asked me “What is your name?” That one simple question tore down the barrier of non communication and allowed us to start developing a friendship. Not only did this make me interested to tell my name but to also follow it up with asking their name. That happened two months ago, now we talk for about ten to fifteen minutes every morning I come in for coffee and we have started a friendship. All because someone asked me my name.

You want to make more friends, start asking people their names.

Simon Sinek has an amazing talk on common bonds between people that is well worth your time today:

You Have To Tell A Story, Before You Can Sell A Story

Wow

Twitter Resource For Finding Non-Followers

You ever wonder who has followed you back, who stopped following you, or who hasn’t tweeted in months? I do. Today I want to share a resource with you that gives all the answers you are looking for.

JustUnfollow is a great, and free, resource that I think you will enjoy. Here is more:

Check out JustUnfollow.com and get some answers. Let me warn you though, the process could be a bit painful seeing who has unfollowed you. Might want a friend to check it for you.

Music Tuesday: Aloe Blacc

Let’s change it up a bit today on Music Tuesday. Let’s get some soulful sound in hear (play on words, get it). Today we feature Aloe Blacc, and his album Good Things. This is an easy listen considering his album is called Good Things. This is a no brainer.

So enjoy some Aloe Blacc and if this is not your type of music check out previous weeks on Music Tuesday here.


You cannot hear this if you are on your phone or in google reader, you gotta go here to listen.

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The One Thing That We Are All Missing

College doesn’t work. Don’t believe me? Ask any 20 something what their degree is and what their actual profession is and you will quickly start to see that college doesn’t work, at least in the way we measuring something “working.”

In our society today, success is all about what can be measure, what results can come from a given outcome. From the day we were born we were measured and tested. The formula is simple, A+B=C and if you keep quiet, make good grades and volunteer at the right places you too will be successful…one day. According to researchers, the unemployment rate among workers with at least a college degree is the highest it has been since the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics began tracking such data, in 1970. College is not working.

Continue the rest of the post here at Satuare Blog

Be Inspired: The City

Get The New Facebook Timeline Before Your Friends

Check out this video and see how you can have the new Facebook timeline before it is released in two weeks:

Read more about the changes here and here

Also a great recap of the 8 newest features found here

ht to @zackmassey

NeedToBreathe Goes Corporate, Gungor Strikes Out and John Mark McMillan Continues To Move Forward

Yesterday (September 20th) was a huge day for releasing music. Bands like Needtobreathe, Gungor, John Mark McMillan (JMM) and many more released new tunes for the world to hear.

Each album (except for JMM, he just released a single) was highly anticipated. The hype/build up of each album pushed thousands to purchase these albums and give them some non stop earplay. I was one of the thousands that listened to each album all day long in hopes of finding some great new music. To be honest, I was a bit disappointed.

Let me sum it all up, NeedToBreathe seemed to go for the CCM radio play style album, Gungor went concept and might have royally struck out, and JMM continues to do his own thing and still be brilliant.

I have listened to all of these albums multiple times (yes even JMM, shhhhhhhh) and have gone back and forth. In some ways I like the NeedToBreathe album, but after a while it starts to all blend in and sound the same and really just gets old. The concept album that Gungor put out is really good stuff, but I do not think it is the homerun that we were all expecting. I still am enjoying, I just don’t think thousands will. The shining star from this whole day was JMM. He some how released only a single and still won the day. It was different, showed a sign of growth, and something new. John Mark continues to put out music that doesn’t look to give in to the demands of his audience but instead comes from him.

That is the difference between the other two albums mentioned, JMM went for what he thinks we need to hear, the others seemed to go for what we wanted to hear.

I love listening to an album and not knowing what to expect. The problem with NeedToBreathe was that it was no different then what they have put out in the last four or five years. Their previous album, Outsiders, broke their typical mold and got outside of the box. This album felt typical, safe, and a little over produced. As well, Gungor’s album was exactly what I expected. Yes it is artsy and creative, but it seemed like they went a bit to far to be just that, that is why I say it struck out. They jumped expecting to be caught and no one was there for the trust fall portion of the adventure.

But the great thing about music is that it is all opinion and that is what I am giving you…my opinion.

I am interested to hear what you think?
Who won the music battle royal of Tuesday, September 20th 2011

How Living in a Pause/Play Society Changes Everything

We live in a pause/play society. A chance to customize our time, work, entertainment, music, and life. Things are changing so drastically, the previous gatekeepers are not on the outside and the walls have been knocked down allowing “common” people to do whatever they want.

From the filmmakers:

The digital revolution of the last decade has unleashed creativity and talent of people in an unprecedented way, unleashing unlimited creative opportunites.

Recently a documentary was released called PressPausePlay. It explores this new time in history. Capturing interviews with artist, filmmakers, designres, thought leaders, and many more. The best part about this film is that you can get it for free.

Check out the trailer first and then go and check out more.

Trailer:

My favorite excerpt:

Watch more here

Download film here

(ht @yarby)